tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post6413701490648847135..comments2024-02-19T15:46:05.054-05:00Comments on things we share: A Bit of Advice.Kristen Skeltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13045497759543461242noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-58315492482523637962013-05-14T23:58:09.491-04:002013-05-14T23:58:09.491-04:00I'm not on facebook, but I actually just unfol...I'm not on facebook, but I actually just unfollowed someone on twitter the other day for this very reason. And I pretty much never unfollow people. But I just couldn't take any more of the constant bad-mouthing of her husband and children on twitter. I just don't get that. It's tacky and I don't think she realizes it makes HER look bad, not them. It's one thing to confide in a close friend and possibly ask for advice, quite another to blast your problems over the internet for potentially thousands of people to read. And it definitely won't help solve the problem, if anything, it will make it worse once the spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend sees that you put it all online.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00263044857099967566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-28311162313628653602013-05-10T10:14:58.113-04:002013-05-10T10:14:58.113-04:00I agree! I am friends with a single mom that cons...I agree! I am friends with a single mom that constantly rants about her latest boyfriends and then can't figure out why they never stick around. Nothing is sacred anymore. Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10803925425249925354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-34989057778287770472013-05-10T09:12:07.758-04:002013-05-10T09:12:07.758-04:00Completely agree. And going along with that, how a...Completely agree. And going along with that, how about people just stop over-sharing on Facebook in general? A couple of months ago a girl had a status that said, "I just picked a huge booger." Why would anybody need to know that? Gross.Paige @ Little Nostalgiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11978050087934003216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-49977638832193418322013-05-09T22:54:15.852-04:002013-05-09T22:54:15.852-04:00I definitely agree that some things are better lef...I definitely agree that some things are better left unsaid. There's so much drama on facebook that I wound up deleting my account a few months ago. I just didn't want to waste time on there anymore.hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00605261523216205635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-14440049564480174502013-05-09T20:29:00.083-04:002013-05-09T20:29:00.083-04:00I couldn't agree more! I hate seeing posts on ...I couldn't agree more! I hate seeing posts on FB about relationship problems! Bad mouthing the ones you love gets you nowhere. This should be like a warning when you sign into FB...lol!Memories for Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09677127617656258362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-65997648366761771282013-05-09T20:20:41.830-04:002013-05-09T20:20:41.830-04:00I really love this advice! I'm such an open bo...I really love this advice! I'm such an open book (especially with really close friends) that it's hard for me not to just rant about whatever is on my mind, but I really find that it's hugely beneficial to just keep private matters private. Thanks for sharing :-)Lisa @ Naptime Chaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10661999435893416022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-90906432054181894242013-05-09T17:42:56.972-04:002013-05-09T17:42:56.972-04:00yesssssssss! i remember one of my good friends in ...yesssssssss! i remember one of my good friends in high school made a comment about "you and matt have some kind of weird pact to never talk bad about each other" like it was a very negative thing. i think it was just more of a mutual respect for one another... even in high school, and it's worked out well so far :)<br />-Rachel w k<br /><a href="http://www.rwkrafts.com" rel="nofollow">rwkrafts.com</a><br />Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14182795514335102550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-12634857221038754842013-05-09T12:59:11.078-04:002013-05-09T12:59:11.078-04:00I do my best to follow this principle for pretty m...I do my best to follow this principle for pretty much every aspect of my life. There is nothing worse than seeing inappropriate, negative comments on Facebook about co-workers, general work situations, in-laws, etc. It is particularly important with a partner, as publicly blabbing a problem is basically a guarantee to make a situation worse.Rose Clearfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15334598119125293424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7587088304083498343.post-63154432508962727182013-05-09T12:10:31.691-04:002013-05-09T12:10:31.691-04:00YES! I totally agree with this. The other thing ...YES! I totally agree with this. The other thing is that once you resolve the issue with your partner, the person that you complained to doesn't get that feeling of it being resolved, you know? They just have the negative things you said to think about. Kelly https://www.blogger.com/profile/05095074218377740407noreply@blogger.com